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    César Chávez reacted to TrueTomHarley in IICSA: survivors speak of influence of religion   
    Yes. It’s a valid question. Though, of course, I have done the same (or parallel)
    Speaking of “anti-cultism,” I quoted someone saying, “Oh, sorry for not having a PhD in whatever b******t you have your PhD in.” Everyone knows what the word is. 
    Language changes. I have always avoided that acronym but, as above, have said things just as bad. 
    I even had some fun with it in Tom Irregardless and Me. Some heavy-metal group, I forget which, had just released a critically acclaimed song, with lyrics raging at the current state of the world:
    ”We are so f**ked, s**t out of luck!” (asterisks the writer’s)
    I recapped it as: Yes! Exactly! Now you’ve got it!
    You are so f**ked! You are shit out of l**k!
    But it doesn’t have to be that way! Clean up your act! Pick up those Bibles! “Shave off those beards! Apply yourselves and maybe a year or so you can do one of our original songs! Why—with your background, maybe you can do two!”
    I’m still waiting. 
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    César Chávez reacted to Arauna in IICSA: survivors speak of influence of religion   
    Yes, we all have experience of judicial committees.... lol.
    Your other words also indicate that we must shut up if we have not been on a committee.   So where will I learn about this as a silly woman hmmm....? Will you teach me? .. when you distainfully shut me up or  expect me to say nothing or get off the forum?   
    OR will you patiently explain things here on the forum and NOT  expect  people to dutifully shut up?  I learn a lot from you but what you have  shamelessly said over the last few days, does not indicate wisdom by NOT looking at things also from another persons perspective.  You remind me of the pharisees - all law, and no love. You have to learn to tone down the harshness and one-sidedness. I look past that because I like to learn things - no matter from which mouth it comes , ........ I am not just speaking for myself here.
    On this forum is not just about having experts on a matter talking.  If the forum was merely for experts arguing "cases" then where would us ordinary folk go?  
    I do not want to share photographs of myself on other media or talk about car racing, clothes, or some other silly subject. I come here to get my mind stimulated to get something new to think about ...... not to be an expert..... or to be perfect..... If I wanted oversight I would go to the "closed" part of the forum. 
    Yes - there are those who are  silly sometimes... even sloppy.....(I feel entitled to be, having worked hard my whole life)...... but this is made up for by others with extreme puffiness, commedians, bad tempered and deviant  experts and others with extreme hate-OCD.  
    There are people on here that would not believe even if christ himself spoke to them from heaven by e-mail.... they would think it is a despicable  JW prodding  them..... their prejudice is immutable. They think the JW organization should be run the way THEY think it should be run and will always find some handy element to critisize as long as they live ....... no matter how reasonable the arguments....... because they themselves cannot put themselves in any other persons shoes. They are highly flawed but do not know it.  Put those very same people in a position of leadership and all justice will disappear because they have no clue about righteousness or justice. 
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    César Chávez reacted to Arauna in IICSA: survivors speak of influence of religion   
    Then why do you come here?  You yourself say - have discipline..... discipline the mind!  Walk the talk buddy!  I know I am a Witness - but if I am not good enough to your standards,  go read the watchtower we studied today!
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    César Chávez reacted to Arauna in IICSA: survivors speak of influence of religion   
    phew! sigh.....
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    César Chávez reacted to TrueTomHarley in IICSA: survivors speak of influence of religion   
    When time travel is invented, historical revisionists will give a friendly wave to American forefather slaveholders as they race past them to bring the real arch-fiends, the Ancient Greek pedophiles, on whom Western society is based, back in leg-irons.
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    César Chávez reacted to Thinking in IICSA: survivors speak of influence of religion   
    Well I was loath to chime in on this subject I admit ...and it probably would have been wiser to not say a thing..and yes I broke  my own rule over this.
    Because it declines into a emotional school yard cat fight... but you also do not fully understand either Billy....NONE..of us here do...not really.
    But I know first hand of certain issues here in Australia..I watched all of the ARC..talked with victims and elders...know  of certain    cases...intimately ..so can speak from experience...
    The way they were handled by elders and the Branch directions of the time..and how victims were handled...and the frustrations of elders and the victims.
    I listen to witnesses who have got things a bit wrong...sometimes a lot wrong...and a lot right .
    I listen to Ex JWs who have got some things right and some things wrong...
    It is not as simple or straightforward forward as so many believe....it is not black and white
    I have distorted nothing...I am just more balanced over this subject .than you
    Agreeing with anEx Jw on certain matters  does not make one their Alia..it’s just acknowledging a fact that may be correct in a certain issue at a certain time.
    as far as chiming in..we have discussed this before me with you actually...and that didn’t end very well either....you told me you were not my brother...so as I said...I am loath to enter such a discussion..it goes round and round in circles with insults thrown at each other....and everyone becomes like rabid dogs biting at each other and thinking it is okay because it is a forum...and thinking Jehovah is going to accept such behaviour and excuse us of it.....and I include myself in this as well.
    I wish you well CC..I’m not to sure who you are...as I’m not to sure who anyone is here ...
    As far as a culture thing...Jehovah’s laws are laws...I once had a elder say to me over a very serious matter.....” well it’s not how Australians are”....
    no I thought...but it is how Jehovah is......
    I won’t reply on this matter again....but I stand by my words and will not back off from them even tho I will remain silent...
     
    Witnesses are allowed to disagree with each other..we are not robots....it does not make us apostates...or idiots...just people with differing views ...which may change at any given time..and also may not change.
    I don’t always agree with Toms view..nor he with mine...but what a great conversation we would have in a car group..
    You yourself have distorted facts..as have certain ex JWs....it’s a mess all around and it’s so hard to find ANY one Who can have a balanced view over it.
    I do not speak out ignorance ..but deal with facts..everything else is a waste of time and effort..
     
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    César Chávez reacted to Srecko Sostar in IICSA: survivors speak of influence of religion   
    GB determines in what matters a "brother" may be sued. Does that mean you can sue him in things that GB didn't approve of, yet? Why does GB consider that it has the right to determine when it is allowed to go to secular court and when it is not allowed? What “biblical passages” support these human rules?
    :)) smoking and inhaling, what is difference
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    César Chávez reacted to TrueTomHarley in IICSA: survivors speak of influence of religion   
    I don’t know what you are smoking, but what you have underscored in no way contradicts my point and in no way validates yours. On the second portion I speak a bit less confidently, for I have no idea what point you are trying to make, nor even if you are making one beyond merely laying down words.
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    César Chávez reacted to Anna in IICSA: survivors speak of influence of religion   
    Back to the topic of CSA
    There is absolutely nothing one can do to control what members do in the privacy of their own homes, or other people's homes, regardless their status in the congregation.  Elder "oh so nice" at the KH could be touching Jane, his 6 year old daughter every night during bedtime story time. Ministerial servant "extra helpful" could be touching Tommy, his 12 year old Bible student, while conducting a Bible study with him at his home, with the unsuspecting single mother in the next room; grateful that she could approach a servant to help her with the fatherly task of educating her fatherless son. None of these things the congregation or JW org can be held responsible for. It would not stand up in court. This is why in the case of Candace Conti, for example, it was so important for the court to establish that she was molested during field service, because that was recognized as a church based activity, which the congregation could be held responsible for.
    Years later, when Jane and Tommy have reached adulthood, they finally disclose their abuse. Not to the elders, but to the media. And later file a lawsuit. What is the congregation/JW org. supposed to do?
    I am not saying the case of Jane and Tommy happens in all cases. Not at all. There are many various scenarios. But the case of Jane and Tommy are based on true stories that actually happened.
    Then we have other cases where suspicions of a persons vile acts were reported while the victim was still a child (unfortunately that does not happen very often as children rarely disclose) and usually these cases are reported to the police by the parent. Often times the police don't do anything! If the parent only reports it to the congregation, then the elders have to use their judgement to verify the facts. This is the only time it's possible for the elders to screw up. They may not believe the child or think the child may be exaggerating especially if the perpetrator denies. The child may be saying the truth, and the perpetrator may be a liar. The case gets put on the back burner. A year later the perpetrator molest another child, who says nothing, then another child, who also says nothing...until we have several children who have been molested by the original perpetrator. Now THIS is BAD indeed. Years later one of the victims comes forward and takes the case to court. Now it looks as if we harbor pedophiles. But in fact it's because the elders screwed up, made a mistake in judgement, not because they believed the guy was really a pedophile, but because they did not believe he was a pedophile. Big difference. Bad mistake, no doubt about it.
    So you are barking up the wrong tree when you are trying to find fault with the JW organization but really, it is a problem with the organization's members (elders, servants, publishers) when they do bad things in secret. At the KH everyone can put on an act, but who you really are becomes manifest in private. The organization has no control there.  Sometimes, even with simple things, the congregation overseer's job is comparable to trying to herd cats. Trying to motivate people to cooperate is a nightmare sometimes. And bad people will do what they want, and of course they will do it in secret, and when chalenged they will deny and deny.
    How would you handle that?
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    César Chávez reacted to TrueTomHarley in IICSA: survivors speak of influence of religion   
    I hate to say it, but I am quite comfy personally as is—though of course I realize this is not true of the greater brotherhood and may not continue to hold true for me. 
    I have carved myself a unique little niche, partly due to a modest innate talent and partly because I am not good at anything else. Will the new system liberate me in that regard? Or will the brothers say, “Aren’t you the one who hung out on that squirrelly site to battle the ne’er-do-wells after we said you ought not? Hmm. What are your qualifications? Battling “apostates?” Too bad for you there aren’t any now.” ?
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    César Chávez reacted to TrueTomHarley in IICSA: survivors speak of influence of religion   
    What could be more humble than this? Asking for help. Asking for counsel. Asking for strengthening. Abasing oneself as a child. Surely a true Christian would be softened at this. Surely a true Christian would offer a mild response. His response?
    Nothing! Not a bit of help, though he was entreated in the kindest way! Just boasting about his own brilliance, and denouncing anyone who has given him the slightest offense! 
    I tell you, I have pretty well come around to an idea @JW Insideronce floated, that he is not a Witness at all, and his primary M.O. is to make JWs look as nasty and intolerant as possible by pretending he is one. 
    Nor have I ever actually seen him give a witness, in the way Arauna just did   a few comments above, or relate an upbuilding experience, or strive to upbuild anyone. I have not seen Christian kindness, Does he “continue to show mercy to those who have doubts,” as in Jude 23, “snatching them from the fire?” Or does he turn up the flames on them?
    Arauna’s “experiment” (though she be quite sincere in asking for help) just about clinches it for me. The guy is a fraud. As such, the ruse is cleverly done, because he does have command of certain legalistic points, which he “fortifies” with picayune ones (that fall apart upon scrutiny—or at the very least, reveal astounding tone-deafness). If he really is a brother, some serious self-examination is called for.
     
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    César Chávez reacted to JW Insider in IICSA: survivors speak of influence of religion   
    For the specific point that Arauna refers to, I think it's fair. However, I got interrupted with a long phone call before adding an important point in Cesar's favor. Arauana was not clear about a separate point where I believe she was also agreeing with Cesar against Srecko, but she quoted Cesar's response to Srecko instead of going back to the original statement by Srecko in her quote. So it made it look like she was quoting Cesar and responding to him:
     
    ------Arauna, responding to Cesar's response to Srecko------

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    This could very easily have been the "trigger" because the "you" looks like it refers to Cesar.
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    César Chávez reacted to TrueTomHarley in IICSA: survivors speak of influence of religion   
    This is not a bad idea. I could benefit from it (but probably won’t)
    I’m not entirely sure the relevance, but I used to love this takeoff on the old Certs ad:
    ”Certs is a breath mint”
    Certs is a taste mint”
    ”a breath mint.”
    ”a taste mint.”
    “Breath”
    ”TASTE!!!”
    “Oh, yeah??!!!”
    “YEAH!! WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO ABOUT IT??!!!!!”
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    César Chávez reacted to Arauna in IICSA: survivors speak of influence of religion   
    How about this - I know of many teachings that have been the same almost since the inception of JWs:
    1. Most religions teach that the soul is immortal and  can go out of you and float in mid air up to heaven or go down to hell! We have stayed with the same teaching!
    2. The name Jehovah - it has now been proven that 2500 manuscripts exist with the point system which indicates YEHOVAH is the correct pronunciation in Hebrew. And the name actually has much deeper meaning than most realize.
    3. Jesus put his soul in death - yes he really died! We are the only ones who believe this as far as I am aware.
    4. Neutrality - no voting and no active participation in politics.
    5. The kingdom is a real government - not something invisible in your heart
    6. 144000 go to heaven and the rest are the great crowd
    7. Most will live on the earth forever.
    8. 1914 itself is a date that has stood for a long time..... despite the scoffers that laugh at us and the mistakes about the end of the perousia..... 
    I can mention more - so despite the scoffers that present us as shifty shift - changing teachings all the time  - the ABOVE stable teachings which have NeVeR changed, proves you are the deceiver and accuser ..... not the witnesses. 
     
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    César Chávez reacted to TrueTomHarley in IICSA: survivors speak of influence of religion   
    This is an apostate lie.
    Things will be perfect in the new system. Even clothes will be just in the color you want them to be. There will be no need to dye.
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    César Chávez reacted to Patiently waiting for Truth in Jehovah’s Witnesses Facing Norway Data Regulator’s Privacy Audit   
    https://news.bloomberglaw.com/privacy-and-data-security/jehovahs-witnesses-facing-norway-data-regulators-privacy-audit
    The Norwegian Data Protection Authority says it will act on complaints made against the Jehovah’s Witnesses’ processing of members’ personal information.
    Acting on “several complaints and tips,” the agency said it has sent a series of questions to the Norwegian branch of the global church.
    According to the agency, the complaints relate to the processing of data held by judiciary committees, which act as the Jehovah’s Witnesses’ internal court system. Such committees can decide to take action against members who are found to have disobeyed the church’s protocols, which outlaw practices like nonmarital sex, homosexuality, and abortion, the agency said....
    The article would not allow me further access, so this is all I have. 
     
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    César Chávez reacted to Patiently waiting for Truth in IICSA: survivors speak of influence of religion   
    https://www.churchtimes.co.uk/articles/2021/19-february/news/uk/iicsa-survivors-speak-of-influence-of-religion
    BEING raised in a highly religious community is seen by victims and survivors of child sexual abuse as one factor affecting their experience. This emerged today in a new report from the Independent Inquiry into Child Sexual Abuse (IICSA).
    The Inquiry is building on information that it hears through its investigations, research, and through its Truth Project (News, 29 January). This latest consultation took the list of the nine “protected characteristics” identified in the Equality Act 2010, which protects people from discrimination in the UK.
    Some described feeling isolated and unable to associate with anyone beyond their religious community. One described a culture of “insularity” in the Jehovah’s Witnesses, and how it fostered mistrust of secular authority. Another said that coming from a Christian background had led her “to rebel against my parents, leading me into the arms of a sexual predator”.
    Link to full article above. Different people react in different ways. 
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    César Chávez reacted to Matthew9969 in Revelation Chapter One. Well I do say I don't understand scripture. Help please   
    You would have to th8nk Jehovah was created.
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    César Chávez reacted to Matthew9969 in After State Blunder, PA Abuse Victims Ask: 'Who The Hell Are We Supposed To Trust?'   
    Maybe the watchtower is working with the catholic church?
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    César Chávez reacted to Patiently waiting for Truth in After State Blunder, PA Abuse Victims Ask: 'Who The Hell Are We Supposed To Trust?'   
    https://www.wesa.fm/post/after-state-blunder-pa-abuse-victims-ask-who-hell-are-we-supposed-trust#stream/0
    The news that Pennsylvania had screwed up the process for putting a constitutional amendment before voters that would allow victims of decades-old sexual abuse to sue hit Jay Sefton hard.
    When the Pennsylvania Department of State failed to advertise the proposed constitutional amendment that had been passed by the legislature, it halted a march toward justice for thousands of victims abused in the commonwealth. The constitutional amendment process takes two years, and unless an emergency provision passes by mid-April, it would be 2023 before victims would be given a window to sue over decades-old sexual abuse claims.
    You can read the whole article by clicking on the link at top but I'll just add this bit here
    In addition to the Catholic Church, the Jehovah’s Witnesses and Boy Scouts of America have each come under fire and scrutiny for allegations that they did nothing to root out child abusers within their ranks. They represent additional thousands of potential plaintiffs in Pennsylvania, according to advocates.
    “It doesn’t make sense,” said Rozzi. “It really makes you want to find out what really happened over there and did maybe a powerful institution have a role in making sure this didn’t happen.”
    Um, I've been saying that for a while now. 
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    César Chávez reacted to TrueTomHarley in DF'ed for gluttony?   
    None. You do realize that the Terminator reference was to Alan, though, I trust.
    No. All good points.
    Sometimes, probably not often enough, I write out a comment and then sit on it for awhile, even to next day. If I still feel it good to go, I let fly. Sometimes I think the remark is better canned or put elsewhere.
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    César Chávez reacted to TrueTomHarley in DF'ed for gluttony?   
    Well, you DO raise an excellent point here.
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    César Chávez reacted to Thinking in DF'ed for gluttony?   
    Nor should they..this thread is stupid....brothers and sisters are dying out there.. being  tortured..thrown into prison...losing their employment..families turning on them...their faith tested to the max!!!!!!
    And the worse is yet to come for many of us
    and this is the Calibre of point of discussion...c’mon..people!!!
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    César Chávez reacted to Thinking in DF'ed for gluttony?   
    I miss him ...
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