How many of you love your husbands? ha ha ha..

[Bible Speaks]

How many of you love your husbands? ha ha ha.. Very Funny ? ????

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There was a group of women gathered at a seminar on how to live in a loving relationship with your husband.

The women were asked, ‘How many of you love your husbands?’

All the women raised their hands.

Then they were asked, ‘When was the last time you told your husband you loved him?’

Some women answered today, some yesterday, some didn’t remember..

The women were then told to take their cell phones and send the following text to their respective husband: I love you, sweetheart.

Then the women were told to exchange phones and read the responding text messages.

Here are some of the replies:

1. Eh, mother of my children, are you sick?

2. What now? Did you crash the car again?

3. I don’t understand what you mean?

4. What did you do now? I won’t forgive you this time!!!

5. ?!?

6. Don’t beat about the bush, just tell me how much you need?

7. Am I dreaming? ???????

8. If you don’t tell me who this message is actually for, you will die today…!!!

9. I asked you not to drink anymore!!

and the best one

10. Who is this?

[Queen Esther]

@Bible Speaks

I  don't  understand  your  post    explain  me  the  sense,  I  can't  laugh  about  that.

[Bible Speaks]

@Queen Esther The motto of the story is this for success in a marriage: First Love one another, Communication is essential, and a three-fold cord with Jehovah most important! There also must be forgiveness openly between two, husband and wife.

@Dr Ira Byock, MD states in his book; "The Four Things That Matter Most"

Four simple phrases, "Please Forgive me," "I forgive you," "Thank you," "I Love you". If we practice these life-affirming words in our day-to-day lives it not only will improve our emotional well-being, bring more Love and respect between Husband and Wife. It gives us also wisdom to honor others, and what we really want from those who really matter to us. 

Of course Jehovah will also Bless a three-fold cord with him that shows their Love and Devotion to Him and each other. 

Hope this helps? ????

[Queen Esther]

@Bible Speaks. I didn't need any book for that, bec. I learned such of elementary things in my childhood at home, thats importend I think. All humans are different and some people never say 'I love you'...  there is helping NO book ! 

We have the Bible and also some little theocratic books for learning that, I think thats enough. Jehovah will love us all as individually humans. We are learning all importend things in the NW 1000 years   HE will give us these many years for learning and getting to perfect ! Thats MY opinion to your theme....

[Bible Speaks]

@Queen Esther When we become perfect that is wonderful! Satan is attacking families and marriage. Good words, love and care and communication are what the Bible teaches. We have the Owners manual, yes, I enjoyed this book. It is a national best seller. I am a open minded person and share and encourage as many as I can. There is nothing in this book against the Bible, I've been able to help others learn much. We can all decide when we need research on matters of happy communication, it's not something we learn easy. Personalities can be very different and our protection yes is God's Words. Thank you for your thoughts, I enjoy sharing and communicating and this book also helped me. Agape, ???

[Queen Esther]

@Bible Speaks  I  am  also  an  open - minded  human,  and  I  learned  alot  without  books    My  communication  with  others  mostly  very  good,  I  realize  it  by  the  replication !  Its  a  thing  of  feelings, experiences, knowledge  of  human  nature  etc. -  You  must  accept,  not  all  humans  need  the  same  things...

Some  humans  need  books  for  that  -  I  need  sometimes  a  cooking - book,  hahaha  but  mostly  I  am  cooking  by  trying  this  &  that  new,  bec. long  time  experiences  too !  Thats  what  I  can  say  for  now.  -  More  communication  by  msg.  in  private,  not  here  by  commenting.  Agape !

[Arauna]

We must not think from our own perspective only.  There are many people in Jehovah's organization that come with a lot of baggage.  Some have never learnt to say " I love you" and others do not know how to show love - they have to learn this.  They may be in Jehovah's organization being healed from a bad life and they learn slowly how to communicate and show love.  One does not change overnight all the problems you had before by being baptized... so many are still on the road to learn.

I was talking yesterday to a very nice young brother on field service.  He must be 32 years old.   He is seriously in love with a sister and he is troubled by the fact that Swedes do not show gushy feelings.  The love of his life is Spanish (people who show their feelings).  So he told me that a friend (not Swedish) gave him the advice to spill  his tremendous love for this sister and to be honest with her. But it is giving him sooo much pain to do this....he may never get to the point to do this.  

This gave me insight in how different cultures can be - that a young man is so stifled in his communication to tell a girl he is crazy over her.   Yes - communication is the life blood of any good relationship and especially in marriage. 

I was happy recently when I saw a photo of my son and his wife on Facebook and he declared to the world that she is his "best friend."  We must be best friends (one can tell your best friend anything and trust them with the revelations) as well as husband and wife.

 

 

 

By the way - I can add a few more sagely comments from husbands to the list above - but I may offend some!

[Queen Esther]

@Arauna  I  understand  your  good  comment  sister  Arauna,  thank  you  so  much !

[John Lindsay Barltrop]

Sister Arauna, I for one would not be offended, because..........(a) I used to be conceited, but; (b) I am now perfect...........well, I will be one day.........????

[Queen Esther]

2 minutes ago, John Lindsay Barltrop said:

Sister Arauna, I for one would not be offended, because..........(a) I used to be conceited, but; (b) I am now perfect...........well, I will be one day.........????

[Arauna]

I think we all have some conceit somewhere deep down and we have to learn to control it.  This week's Watchtower is sooo good reminder to watch ourselves!

[John Lindsay Barltrop]

Sister Arauna...........I was only joking.........I am not sure whether you took it that way or not!!!