What is Success in Life? – Be ? Happy!

[Bible Speaks]

Success in life...some things are easy some are not! Think what success means...Loneliness in a World of Mass Connection - Take time for the Creator and His words to guide your life not things!

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(Proverbs 2:6-9) . . .For Jehovah himself gives wisdom; out of his mouth there are knowledge and discernment. 7 And for the upright ones he will treasure up practical wisdom; for those walking in integrity he is a shield, 8 by observing the paths of judgment, and he will guard the very way of his loyal ones. 9 In that case you will understand righteousness and judgment and uprightness, the entire course of what is good."

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CELL-PHONE ? calls, text messages, e-mails, online social networks, chat rooms—there has never been a time when the means of communicating were so numerous and easy to come by. Yet, in this world of mass connection, many people—young and old—feel very lonely. Why?

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In their book Loneliness—Human Nature and the Need for Social Connection, researchers John T. Cacioppo and William Patrick thoroughly address the subject of loneliness. They refer to a study that says that “increased Internet use can increase social isolation as well as depression when it replaces more tangible forms of human contact.”

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The hectic pace of life imposed by modern society is hardly conducive to warm human contact. A smile and the affection that can be seen in a personÂ’s eyes cannot generally be conveyed over the phone or through a message on a computer ? screen.

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The above can be true in the workplace but even more so within the family circle. In many homes family members come and go without sharing meals or conversation. Adolescent children have their own computer and live virtually isolated from the rest of the family. Ironically, in spite of their electronic communication gadgets, many youngsters feel lonely. ???

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These days, even the bonds of marriage can be threatened by feelings of loneliness. Lack of communication between marriage partners can bring about a situation in which the two lead parallel lives, moving in lines that seldom meet. A feeling of being alone while living with a marriage mate is one of the most distressing forms of loneliness. ?????

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Single parents in particular may have to contend with feelings of loneliness. The world of mass connection, among many other things, can cut off companionship with their children, causing feelings of aloneness to increase. Also, many single people long to have a companion, but their emotional needs remain unfulfilled.

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Loneliness has become a social evil that can contribute to alcoholism, overeating, drug abuse, promiscuous sexual behavior, and even suicide. It is therefore important to identify the causes of loneliness. Taking this first step can lead to success in coping with the problem.

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AN IMAGINARY WALL OF PROTECTION

“The valuable things of the rich [man] are his strong town, and they are like a protective wall in his imagination.” (Proverbs 18:11) In ancient times, people depended on high walls for protection against attack. But think of living in a city surrounded by a wall that only existed in your mind. As hard as you tried to convince yourself otherwise, that wall would provide no defense against your enemies.

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Like people living in such an exposed place, young ones who pursue riches are headed for disappointment. Are you a parent? You would do well to help your child avoid the trap of materialism and not take up life in a city with an imaginary wall.

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The following Bible-based truths can help you reason with your son or daughter:

? Great wealth often brings far more problems than it solves. “The plenty belonging to the rich one is not permitting him to sleep.”—Ecclesiastes 5:12; 1 Timothy 6:9, 10.

? With good planning, a person does not need wealth to be happy. “The plans of the diligent one surely make for advantage.”—Proverbs 21:5; Luke 14:28.

? A moderate income that covers one’s needs leads to contentment. “Give me neither poverty nor riches.”—Proverbs 30:8.

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PRACTICAL WAYS TO REDUCE STRESS

? Do you spend a lot of time sorting through papers and notebooks, trying to find what you want? Some people need help to get better organized. DonÂ’t be ashamed to ask others for suggestions.

? Do you procrastinate? As a test, make an effort to complete an assignment ahead of time. The relief and satisfaction you feel will surprise you and may motivate you to stop putting off your schoolwork.

? Do you often find yourself daydreaming during class? Try this for a month: Listen closely to the classroom discussions, and take good notes for later reference. You may be pleasantly surprised at how much easier your homework becomes. That good result will reduce your stress in school.

? Have you selected classes that increase the pace of your schooling but that require much more time and effort? Is it vital that you take those classes? Speak with your parents. Get the opinion of someone with a reasonable view of education. You may find that those optional courses add little to your progress toward graduation. 

YOUR CONNECTION IS IMPORTANT! AIM HIGH ? ??

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